Emisioni \u201cFol me psikologen\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb fokusuar k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb tek seksi. E ftuar n\u00eb studio gazetarja Zhaklin Lekatari, e cila ka nj\u00eb blog t\u00eb sajin Tabu.al n\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb me psikologen Ervisa Lula ka sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb komunikimeve me ndjek\u00ebsit.<\/p>\n
M\u00eb shum\u00eb se 70% e personave q\u00eb m\u00eb shkruajn\u00eb thot\u00eb ajo, jan\u00eb burrat dhe djemt\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt m\u00eb pyesin se si mund ta zgjasin ejakulimin m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 3 minuta. Psikologia Lula: Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb pyetja q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh ndjek\u00ebsit ?<\/p>\n
Lekatari: M\u00eb pyesin se si t\u2019ia b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb ta zgjasin ejakulimin m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 3 minuta ose si ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb edhe kur ka filluar raporti seksual apo penetrimi. Mendoj q\u00eb kjo vjen nga mungesa e edukimit seksual, mungesa e besimit n\u00eb vete..<\/p>\n
Psikologia Lula: Ata q\u00eb t\u00eb paraqesin t\u00eb till\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim a kan\u00eb shkuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb tek andrologu?<\/p>\n
Lekatari: Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e tyre thon\u00eb po<\/p>\n
Psikologia Lula: Nga historit\u00eb q\u00eb ndjek\u00ebsit kan\u00eb ndar\u00eb me ty, cila t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje dhe pse?<\/p>\n
Lekatari: Disa nga ato q\u00eb m\u00eb thon\u00eb m\u00eb duken naive, por pyetja q\u00eb z\u00eb vendin e par\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i cili kishte gruan shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe gjat\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb ajo kishte patur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie edhe me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Ai pyeste se kujt do t\u2019i ngjante f\u00ebmija. Kjo ka qen\u00eb pyetja m\u00eb absurde q\u00eb un\u00eb kam lexuar.<\/p>\n
Psikologia Lula: Cila ishte mosha e tij?<\/p>\n
Lekatari: Ishte mbi 30 vje\u00e7 dhe kur un\u00eb e pyeta se a kishte informacion se si ndodh ngjizja dhe fekondimi, si b\u00ebhen f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb tha se nuk ngelte ai shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, nuk b\u00ebnte f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dinte si\u2026<\/p>\n
Gjat\u00eb emisionit u fol p\u00ebr fenomene si \u201cShok\u00eb me p\u00ebrfitime\u201d, seksi treshe, tradh\u00ebtia bashk\u00ebshortore dhe seksi n\u00eb telefon. Blogerja sqaroi se shok\u00ebt me p\u00ebrfitime jan\u00eb raporte mes djemve dhe vajzave, raporte seksuale t\u00eb cilat shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebrtej marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies sentimentale dhe emocionale, shok q\u00eb konsumojn\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe n\u00eb aspektin fizik.<\/p>\n
Fenomen ky q\u00eb sipas Lekatarit \u00ebsht\u00eb prezent edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare ashtu sikurse edhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale e konsumuar mes tre personave, por t\u00eb tilla marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie ekzistojn\u00eb tek nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket deklarat\u00ebs s\u00eb saj se meshkujt shqiptar\u00eb nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb seks Lekatari ka sqaruar se kjo vjen p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb edukimit seksual, ndrydhjes, munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebbesimit, eksperienc\u00ebs, jo vet\u00ebm djemt\u00eb, por edhe vajzat kan\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb njohjen e vetes s\u00eb tyre, n\u00ebse nuk ke b\u00ebr\u00eb hapin e par\u00eb masturbimin dhe njohjen e vetes \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh hapat e tjer\u00eb .<\/p>\n
N\u00eb studion e \u201cFol me psikologen\u201d ajo ka ndar\u00eb edhe historin\u00eb e nj\u00eb gruaje e cila k\u00ebrkonte ndihm\u00eb pasi pas shum\u00eb vitesh martes\u00eb nuk arrinte dot orgazm\u00ebn, madje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb kishte shkuar edhe tek nj\u00eb hoxh\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Emisioni \u201cFol me psikologen\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb fokusuar k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb tek seksi. E ftuar n\u00eb studio gazetarja Zhaklin Lekatari, e cila ka nj\u00eb blog t\u00eb sajin Tabu.al n\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb me psikologen Ervisa Lula ka sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb komunikimeve me ndjek\u00ebsit. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se 70% e personave q\u00eb m\u00eb shkruajn\u00eb thot\u00eb ajo, jan\u00eb burrat dhe djemt\u00eb…<\/p>\n