-Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb raportimi televiziv n\u00eb \u201cLive From Tirana\u201d, Neda Balluku rr\u00ebfeu nj\u00eb moment shum\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb nga marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, me t\u00eb cilin jan\u00eb bashk\u00eb p\u00ebr 15 vite, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se nj\u00eb nat\u00eb e kishte pyetur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ndershme n\u00ebse e kishte tradhtuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ajo donte thjesht t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn\u2014pa pasoja, pa dramatik\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Fryma e k\u00ebsaj bisede ishte e hapur dhe pa akuza: \u201cDua t\u00eb di \u00e7far\u00eb ke ndjer\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde ku un\u00eb nuk kam qen\u00eb pjes\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrgjigjja q\u00eb mori nga burri i saj ishte e men\u00e7ur dhe reflektive: \u201cEdhe sikur t\u00eb t\u00eb them jo, ty nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb besohet, pasi ti do t\u00eb duash q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb them \u2018po, ka ndodhur\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n
Neda u shpreh se n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tyre nuk ka vend p\u00ebr dyshim t\u00eb bazuar n\u00eb kontroll; ajo nuk ndjek telefonin e tij apo provohet me skena\u2014\u00ebsht\u00eb tejet literaliste dhe e sinqert\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ajo theksoi se kur partneri i saj thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb, ajo e beson me gjith\u00eb besim. Nuk i kupton loj\u00ebrat emocionale apo maskarill\u00ebqet q\u00eb synojn\u00eb dram\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb \u00e7ast ajo nuk vjen me skenar\u00eb apo planifikime t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara; gjith\u00e7ka e b\u00ebn thjesht dhe direkt, sipas bindjeve t\u00eb forta q\u00eb besimi \u00ebsht\u00eb themeli.<\/p>\n
Rr\u00ebfimi i saj dha nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb qart\u00eb: mir\u00ebkuptimi, transparenca dhe sinqeriteti jan\u00eb shtyllat mbi t\u00eb cilat ajo nd\u00ebrton dashurin\u00eb dhe bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Struktura e komunikimit n\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb vendos paqen dhe besimin n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie.<\/p>\n
Neda nuk pranon improvizime emocionalo-dramatike.<\/p>\n
Ajo beson se transparenca dhe respekti i thjesht\u00eb mes dy njer\u00ebzve \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i fort\u00eb se \u00e7do skenar apo dyshim i ngjitur me marrje mendsh.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb fund, ajo tha se nuk ka frik\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pyetjet q\u00eb e ndri\u00e7ojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e saj \u2014 as nuk i frik\u00ebsohet publikimit t\u00eb momenteve t\u00eb tilla; p\u00ebrkundrazi, i sheh si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb lidhjen m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ky rr\u00ebfim \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb q\u00eb ka prekur shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, duke nxitur diskutime p\u00ebr r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e besimit dhe komunikimit t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb n\u00eb lidhjet afatgjata.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
-Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb raportimi televiziv n\u00eb \u201cLive From Tirana\u201d, Neda Balluku rr\u00ebfeu nj\u00eb moment shum\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb nga marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, me t\u00eb cilin jan\u00eb bashk\u00eb p\u00ebr 15 vite, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se nj\u00eb nat\u00eb e kishte pyetur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ndershme n\u00ebse e kishte tradhtuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Ajo donte thjesht t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn\u2014pa pasoja,…<\/p>\n