Nj\u00eb his tori pak e \u00e7u ditshme. Imagjinoni nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb lumtur burr\u00eb e grua dhe dy f\u00eb mij\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb burri vizitohet dhe mj.ek\u00ebt i thon\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb je.toj\u00eb edhe 6 vite sepse v uan nga k anceri. Kjo ishte nj\u00eb dr am\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr ta. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb n\u00eb familje futet nj\u00eb njeri tjet\u00ebr, Naumi, i cili k\u00ebrkon gruas s\u00eb familjes, Liris\u00eb, t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb mar.r\u00ebdh\u00ebnie bashk\u00eb pasi burri t\u00eb nd\u00eb.rroj\u00eb je t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb at\u00eb moment Liria mendon p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt do t\u00eb mbeteshin je tim\u00eb dhe pranon. Kaluan 6 vite, bashk\u00ebshorti i saj i ligjsh\u00ebm nuk po vd iste, ai jetoi edhe 22 vite t\u00eb tjera. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb Liria i kishte dh\u00ebn\u00eb fjal\u00ebn burrit tjet\u00ebr dhe nga ajo marr.\u00ebdh\u00ebnie vjen n\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, Edmiri.<\/p>\n
Por Mirit nuk i japin mbiemrin e babait biologjik, por t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit t\u00eb ligjsh\u00ebm t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. K\u00ebshtu vazhdoi marr.\u00ebdh\u00ebnia derisa n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 11 vje\u00e7are, kur babai biologjik i tregon Mirit se ishte babai i tij. Sot n\u00eb \u201cShihemi n\u00eb Gjyq\u201d t\u00eb programit \u201cE diela shqiptare\u201d, Miri ka sjell\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij, Lirin\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs i k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb proceset gjyq\u00ebsore n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos mbes\u00eb mes kat\u00ebr rrug\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Edmir: Quhem Edmir, vij nga fshati Gostivisht i qytetit t\u00eb Ersek\u00ebs. Ardhja ime sot k\u00ebtu nuk ka qen\u00eb fare e leht\u00eb, por prob lemet dhe ha llet e mia jan\u00eb pa fund dhe vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb pa fund. Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye kam sjell\u00eb sot k\u00ebtu n\u00ebn\u00ebn time, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e aku zoj p\u00ebr mosdh \u00ebnien e ADN-s\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb at\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb von\u00eb problemet kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb pafundme. Dua t\u00eb di cilat kan\u00eb qen\u00eb arsyet.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cak uz\u00eb\u201d, sepse n\u00eb fakt kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb Iliri do t\u00eb dij\u00eb prej teje. \u00c7far\u00eb ka ndodhur Liri? Si ka qen\u00eb jeta jote? Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb, por ca t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta duhen th\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Liria: N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb dua t\u2019i them djalit tim se sot k\u00ebtu nuk e kisha vendin un\u00eb. Sot k\u00ebtu e kishin vendin xhaxhai i tij dhe hallat sepse babai nuk rron m\u00eb. N\u00ebse do ishte gjall\u00eb do ishte k\u00ebtu sot. Shkaktar\u00eb p\u00ebr mosmarrjen e at \u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb djalit ka qen\u00eb familja e babit t\u00eb tij, sepse nuk ka n\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos doj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Si ndodhi Liri? Pra, p\u00ebr ta kuptuar m\u00eb mir\u00eb ju kishit qen\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb 6-vje\u00e7are nga e cila kishit 2 f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Liria: Po.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Dhe n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ju mor\u00ebt vesh q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti juaj vuante nga nj\u00eb s\u00eb mundje e pash\u00eb rueshme menduat se \u00e7do b\u00ebhej me jet\u00ebn tuaj\u2026<\/p>\n
Liria: Isha fare e re 33 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: N\u00eb k\u00ebto momente ju vjen nj\u00eb propozim nga babai bi ologjik i Edmirit pavar\u00ebsisht se ju ishit akoma e martuar dhe normalisht ju filluat nj\u00eb marr.\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dashurie nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Liria: N\u00eb fakt jo q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim. Kur bashk\u00ebshorti im u op erua, doktori i dha vet\u00ebm 5-6 vjet jet\u00eb i dha dhe un\u00eb prisja q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ndahej nga je ta, e t\u00eb vazhdoja nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb rregullt me baban\u00eb e Emirit. N\u00eb fillim ishim thjesht\u00eb shok\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Por duke e ditur q\u00eb ai do t\u00eb ishte burri i ardhsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Liria: Po patjet\u00ebr. Un\u00eb kisha dy f\u00eb mij\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl, nuk mund ta p\u00ebrb alloja dot jet\u00ebn e vetme. Isha 33 vje\u00e7, mendova p\u00ebr ata dy j etim\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Edmir ju i keni d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebto nga n\u00ebna jote, apo t\u00eb duken t\u00eb \u00e7 uditshme.<\/p>\n
Edmir: P\u00ebr mua \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e \u00e7uditshme, disa prej k\u00ebtyre i kam d\u00ebgjuar, por nuk e kuptoj p\u00ebrse duhet t\u2019i pranonte n\u00ebna ime t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb babai ishte gjall\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Nga momenti q\u00eb zonja u lidh n\u00eb martes\u00eb kishin kaluar 6 vjet, kishte dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Pas k\u00ebtyre 6 viteve burri di agnostikohet me nj\u00eb s\u00eb mundje t\u00eb pash \u00ebrueshme dhe mjek\u00ebt i thon\u00eb ky njeri mund t\u00eb je toj\u00eb 5-6 vjet. Sigurisht fjala u hap sepse fshati \u00ebsht\u00eb i vog\u00ebl. Babi biologjik i Edmirit i b\u00ebn nj\u00eb propozim n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tij duke e respektuar martes\u00ebn e saj, por q\u00eb donte t\u00eb dinte q\u00eb pas vd ekjes s\u00eb burrit do martohej me t\u00eb. Zonja nga nj\u00ebra an\u00eb kishte bashk\u00ebshortin e s\u00ebmur\u00eb q\u00eb i sh\u00ebrbente dhe nga ana tjet\u00ebr kishte zotin Dine me t\u00eb cilin takoheshin.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Po takoheshit si shok\u00eb apo\u2026<\/p>\n
Liria: Po si shok\u00eb. Pa u nd ar\u00eb burri nga jeta ne ishim shok\u00eb. Kishim komunikim, por jo si burr\u00eb e grua.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: F\u00ebmija ka lindur pasi vd iq bashk\u00ebshorti?<\/p>\n
Liria: Jo, ka lindur m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara sepse s\u00eb mundja vazhdoi m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 6 vite. N\u00eb koh\u00ebn q\u00eb un\u00eb prisja q\u00eb burri im t\u00eb nda hej nga je ta, nuk mund ta ndaja pa v d ekur sepse m\u00eb ai m\u00eb tha: \u201cJam i gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebj \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dhe dua t\u00eb m\u00eb mbash deri n\u00eb fund. Dua at\u00eb vd es pran\u00eb f\u00eb mij\u00ebve dhe meje\u201d. Un\u00eb ia mbajta premtimin deri n\u00eb fund.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Duke b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe Edmirin gjat\u00eb asaj kohe\u2026<\/p>\n
Liria: Babi i Edmirit e pa q\u00eb koha po zgjatej, mosha po ikte dhe donte nj\u00eb tr ash\u00ebgimtar. Sepse dihej q\u00eb jeta e burrit tim t\u00eb par\u00eb do mbaronte\u2026<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Babai i Edmirit ta tha k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ju ishit me bashk\u00ebshortin?<\/p>\n
Liria: Po, duke e ditur q\u00eb ai do ndahej nga j eta.
\nArdit Gjebrea: Ai pas 6 vitesh nd\u00ebrroi j et\u00eb apo vazhdoi?
\nLiria: Jetoi edhe disa vite m\u00eb pas nd\u00ebrroi je t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Shiko, ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do vd esim nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, por s\u2019mund t\u00eb prenotoj\u00eb gruaja ime burrin kur t\u00eb vd es un\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Liria: Asnj\u00eb nuk e di v dekjen, por do ktor\u00ebt 5-6 vite jet\u00eb i dhan\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Edmiri ka l indur gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb martes\u00ebs me zonj\u00ebs me burrin e par\u00eb, i cili ka nd \u00ebrruar je t\u00eb kur Edmiri ka qen\u00eb 18 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Miri kur ke lindur n\u00eb fillim \u00e7far\u00eb mbiemri ke pasur?<\/p>\n
Edmir: Deri n\u00eb 18 vje\u00e7 kam jetuar me njerkun, i cili m\u00eb pas vd iq. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj periudhe jam pranuar nga babai biologjik n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pa e ditur t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb vite kam mbajtur mbiemrin e njerkut, Jano. Kur un\u00eb isha 6 vje\u00e7 shkoja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e babait tim biologjik, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin m\u00eb kishin th\u00ebn\u00eb se ishte mik i n\u00ebn\u00ebs time. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb dhemb m\u00eb shum\u00eb mua \u00ebsht\u00eb pse dit\u00ebn q\u00eb e kam marr\u00eb vesh ishte vet\u00ebm babai im biologjik dhe jo n\u00ebna ime.<\/p>\n
Liria: Un\u00eb nuk u martova me baban\u00eb t\u00ebnd sepse kisha nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr burr\u00eb, por mendova me \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ushqeja dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb q\u00eb kisha pasi t\u00eb vd iste burri im. Fajin q\u00eb ti nuk more at\u00ebsin\u00eb e babait t\u00ebnd t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk ka ta njerku, as un\u00eb, por babai yt biologjik, xhaxhi yt Filipi dhe hallat. Baban\u00eb t\u00ebnd e k\u00eb rc\u00ebnonte duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb se do ta burgoste n\u00ebse t\u00eb jepte at\u00ebsin\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Edmir: Ti e di si i kam un\u00eb marr\u00eb.dh\u00ebniet me at\u00eb, ai edhe sot m\u00eb shikon n\u00eb rrug\u00eb e m\u00eb ofe ndon. Nuk m\u00eb pranon. Familja e babait tim biologjik nuk m\u00eb ka pranuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, deri m\u00eb sot jo.<\/p>\n
Liria: Ti e di q\u00eb un\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb familje nuk u futa kurr\u00eb sepse nuk m\u00eb pranonin. Pse nuk iu k\u00ebrkoje llogari atyre ti, sepse t\u00eb mbanin nga pas. Pse nuk iu thoshe q\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb m\u00eb thua q\u00eb jam djali yt, po n\u00ebna ime pse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebtu. Pse nuk i k\u00ebrkoje llogari babait q\u00eb nuk isha un\u00eb n\u00eb familje.<\/p>\n
Edmir: Po \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb duhet mua. Un\u00eb kam tjet\u00ebr hall. Sot un\u00eb jam mes kat\u00ebr rrug\u00ebve. Po t\u00eb ishte b\u00ebr\u00eb ADN-ja m\u00eb par\u00eb me marr\u00ebveshjen e mamas\u00eb time dhe babait tim n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur, un\u00eb s\u2019do t\u00eb isha sot k\u00ebtu. Un\u00eb kam humbur familjen, kam humbur dokumentacionet n\u00eb Greqi p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Miri \u00e7far\u00eb i k\u00ebrkon t\u2019i n\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00ebnde sot?<\/p>\n
Edmir: Mamas\u00eb time i k\u00ebrkoj t\u00eb gjej nj\u00eb zgjedhje sepse un\u00eb jam n\u00eb mes t\u00eb kat\u00ebr rrug\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Liria: Meqen\u00ebse un\u00eb n\u00eb fillim nuk pata mund\u00ebsi t\u2019i jepja at\u00ebsin\u00eb djalit p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb penges\u00ebs s\u00eb familjes s\u00eb babait biologjik, tani q\u00eb mu dha mund\u00ebsia un\u00eb e b\u00ebra.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Pas vd ekjes s\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit Liria ka mbajtur 1 vit zi dhe m\u00eb pas i ka k\u00ebrkuar Naunit, babait t\u00eb Edmirit q\u00eb t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb bashk\u00eb, por ai nuk ka pranuar. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nisur drejt Greqis\u00eb, tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj dhe ka marr\u00eb me vete edhe Edmirin. P\u00ebrmes telefonatave t\u00eb vazhdueshme me Edmirin, Nauni i k\u00ebrkon s\u00ebrish Liris\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet. Ata martohen dhe Liria futet m\u00eb n\u00eb fund n\u00eb banes\u00ebn e Naunit dhe jetoi me t\u00eb 5-6 vjet dhe m\u00eb pas ai nd\u00ebrroi je t\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00eb mundje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ardit Gjebrea: Zonja Liri \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar, djali ka marr\u00eb mbiemrin\u2026 Si i nxor\u00ebn jasht\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia?<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb un\u00eb kam marr\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb procedur\u00ebn gjyq\u00ebsore. Kur Edmiri ka marr\u00eb at\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb proces gjyq\u00ebsor, familja e babait t\u00eb tij biologjik ka hapur nj\u00eb gjyq t\u00eb menj\u00ebhersh\u00ebm p\u00ebr pajtimin e pasuris\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb gjyqi p\u00ebr marrjen e at\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr Edmirin nuk kishte p\u00ebrfunduar procesi p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebtimin e pasuris\u00eb vazhdonte dhe Naumi rezultonte pa trash\u00ebgimtar. Pasuria e tij kalonte n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb Naumit dhe Liris\u00eb dhe ky \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi. Miri ndaj thot\u00eb p\u00ebrse nuk ma njohu m\u00eb par\u00eb at\u00ebsin\u00eb. Si p\u00ebrfundim i \u00ebsht\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb banesa xhaxhait biologjik t\u00eb Mirit, Filipit dhe Liria dhe Miri kan\u00eb dal\u00eb nga kjo banes\u00eb dhe iu \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb kompensim financiar p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebn, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn pretendohet.<\/p>\n
Liria: Kam dhe nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb t\u00eb fundit p\u00ebr Filipin. Mua ma ka nx ir\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb kur u bashkova me v\u00ebllain e tij, tani po i nx in jet\u00ebn edhe djalit. T\u00eb mos ma p\u00ebrgojoj\u00eb djalin lart e posht\u00eb,n\u00ebse nuk e pranon si nip nuk m\u00eb b\u00ebhet von\u00eb fare. \/ Burimi: tvklan.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb his tori pak e \u00e7u ditshme. Imagjinoni nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb lumtur burr\u00eb e grua dhe dy f\u00eb mij\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb burri vizitohet dhe mj.ek\u00ebt i thon\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb je.toj\u00eb edhe 6 vite sepse v uan nga k anceri. Kjo ishte nj\u00eb dr am\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr ta. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb n\u00eb familje futet…<\/p>\n